Getting ready for pregnancy
Congratulations! You’ve decided you want to get pregnant, this choice being the first exciting step in your journey. The next step could be schooling yourself on preconception care to optimise conception and your pregnancy experience. Let me help with that side of things.
So, what is preconception care and why is it important?
Preconception care is the time before pregnancy where you and your partner take extra care with your body and mind for at least 3-4months before you start trying to conceive. 3-4months is the time it takes for both sperm and eggs to fully mature, and the time in which you can have a positive effect on this process. Research shows preconception care can play a role in the health of the mother and baby. If we can influence that, surely, it’s worth putting effort into trying!
First steps before trying to get pregnant…
- Booking an appointment with your GP and letting them know you want to get pregnant. They will request bloods to assess things like rubella immunity, and prescribe supplemental folic acid and iodine.
- Folic acid is important to reduce the risk of neural tube defects. Recommended to take 4x weeks before pregnancy and up to 12x weeks into your pregnancy.
- Iodine is important for your baby’s brain development and growth. Taken the duration of pregnancy.
- A cervical smear and STI check may be important if you haven’t done one before, or haven’t done one since being with your current partner. Some STIs can affect fertility.
- Look for a Natural Fertility Educator so you may learn about your unique menstrual cycle and when is the most optimal timing to try for pregnancy. We teach you how to track your cycle using the Sympto-Thermal Method (STM). You may be surprised to learn that you actually can’t get pregnant any old day, like we believed at high school! PS: These appointments are for both you and your partner, their health is equally as important as yours when trying to conceive.
- Once you have knowledge on your unique cycle, referrals may be necessary for further investigation. We learn a lot about your general health and importantly, your hormones, just by tracking your cycle. Fascinating stuff.
Are you ready to learn about your fertility? Find your fabulous NFNZ practitioner here.
Things to cease before getting pregnant:
- Smoking and vaping
- Recreational drug use
- The Ministry of Health NZ recommends both partners do not drink alcohol when trying to conceive. Alcohol can harm your baby and increase the risk of miscarriage. It may affect the health of sperm and quantity aswell.
Things to consider before getting pregnant:
- Check you and your partner’s diet. Are you getting enough protein? Healthy fats? Are you eating enough for your daily energy requirements? Are you eating foods that have a negative effect on your mood and energy? Do you drink many caffeinated beverages? You can always book an appt with an allied health professional such as a nutritionist or naturopath for care in this area. If you are lacking nutrients this may undermine your fertility.
- How is your and your partners lifestyle? Are you moving your body regularly? Are you getting adequate sleep? What are your stress levels like?
- What is you and your partners work environment like? If you work with dangerous substances, you must ensure you are wearing the appropriate protective clothing at all times.
- Are you or your partner taking any medications? Some medications can impact fertility.
This has been a sneak preview into what your preconception journey may look like. Hopefully it’s been a motivating read and you are excited to take ownership of this role you play. Good luck!

Fertility Checklist
If you’re not sure where to start, we have you covered with our Fertility Checklist.
If you are ready to take the next step, reach out to one of our Fertility Educators.




